Friday, September 4, 2009

it is tough to be a mum...

Asher had a fall today that resulted in slight abrasions to the skin just beneath his left eye...


Mummy was packing the room and stuffs... ... to make space for baby very soon...
too many things to do, too little hands...
daddy cant help much seriously...not blaming him though...

how to finish doing everything in that 2 hours of Asher's naptime only?
it is just not possible... ...
i let him play on his own while i continued packing my stuffs...
but then when he fell & hurt himself just like earlier, mummy me feel bad...
seemed like I had been a bad lousy mum...

sometimes it is just so unfair... ...as it may seem.

the kids follow the daddy's surname...
but mummy is the one who goes through all the pregnancy, child bearing process
then everything in relevant to the kid, it is always naturally the mummy's duty and responsibility...like cleaning up his mess, bathing him, feeding him, changing diapers etc....
even asher's paediatrician says:"does he look like the dad? I have never met him before..." and asher is like 19 months old...

and there's still that long list of work that has to be done... ...be it with or wihout a kid...

how to be a good mum?

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