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Asher, do you think daddy will ever read your blog conscientiously?
do you think he will ever bother to know mummy better?
or is it too imposing for mummy to think this way?

maybe thinking this way will be better...
Blog is perhaps just not something everyone is interested in, not even reading it... ?

mummy had a lousy day/night yest... ...about the new "challenge"
got to see how to overcome it, but it perhaps is another lesson learnt not to be so trusting....
didnt lose anything monetaryas yet, just lost some efforts made, trust, faith and belief.

today, daddy offered to buy lunch back for mummy... ...
over the phone, mummy asked for CHA SIEW RICE, daddy said CHA SIEW dont look good and asked if CHICKEN RICE is fine?
Ok...no problem. Mummy likes chicken rice anyway.
BUT............................................................................
open 1st packet...it is breastmeat.
open 2nd packet, still it is breastmeat.

Disappointed.

daddy offered to go out and buy again...but what's the point?
it doesn't reverse the disappointment i had already felt
it just doesnt convince me that daddy will learn, had learnt ...

How many times I have to go through such disappointment, despite clearly telling him what i want, like, dont like... before I can have my simple expectations met? Is it (still) too much to ask for after 10 years together?

if telling him straight to the point still can't work, i honestly dont thinki can do any better..

Maybe to many, it is just a plate of chicken breastmeat rice. What is the big deal about it?
No, it is not just a plate of rice that simple.

It is the whole attitude, effort towards a relationship.

People say...aiyah...10 years already...what you expect? Old Couple le mah...

Maybe I am the weird one.
I am one who dont believe that after many years together, you can take each other for granted always, the romance will naturally die off...

It is all about effort. Romance & keeping the relationship alive is an ART. An ART both should learn along the years together, understanding each other and learning to make each other happy is all part of it.

Just like I know daddy doesnt like his rice covered with gravy, he likes it dry...unlike mummy likes to have some gravy...so i make it a point to request for NO GRAVY on daddy's rice always...

Isn't it right that when you love someone, you want him/her to be happy?
Can someone tell me is my expectations too high?