Dinner with Wai Po, Uncle Felix & Family

15th August 2009 Sat.
Fairmont Singapore Hotel
Szechuan Court
Family Dinner

Uncle Felix treated us to dinner. :)
Food was good. Staffs were nice.

I made a real mess dropping my rice all over the floor... ...

walking around the corner of the table where we sat...

Kor Kor Jared & I

Somehow I am ok with Uncle Felix carrying me...

Enjoying my Ribena!

I want my food!!!

waiting for the food still, cos the adults took a real long time to order

I tried a bit of red wine...

;p

Walking about on my own while returning from a trip to the washroom

Mummy & I
I loved the dessert so much I kept asking for it...

Wai Po & Mummy & didi(in mummy)

If only all 3 are mummy's kids.

Hahahahha
That's not possible!

Wave goodbye!!

See you guys again!

Had a great dinner together.

Except that occasional few moments when I was naughty and refused to sit on the high chair...

mummy scolded me and I run to Uncle Felix...

other than that I guess Mummy still love me lah. :D

it is tough to be a mum...

Asher had a fall today that resulted in slight abrasions to the skin just beneath his left eye...


Mummy was packing the room and stuffs... ... to make space for baby very soon...
too many things to do, too little hands...
daddy cant help much seriously...not blaming him though...

how to finish doing everything in that 2 hours of Asher's naptime only?
it is just not possible... ...
i let him play on his own while i continued packing my stuffs...
but then when he fell & hurt himself just like earlier, mummy me feel bad...
seemed like I had been a bad lousy mum...

sometimes it is just so unfair... ...as it may seem.

the kids follow the daddy's surname...
but mummy is the one who goes through all the pregnancy, child bearing process
then everything in relevant to the kid, it is always naturally the mummy's duty and responsibility...like cleaning up his mess, bathing him, feeding him, changing diapers etc....
even asher's paediatrician says:"does he look like the dad? I have never met him before..." and asher is like 19 months old...

and there's still that long list of work that has to be done... ...be it with or wihout a kid...

how to be a good mum?

My last jab until Primary One le!!

18th August 2009

Went to see Dr. Tan, my PD.
This will be my last jab until I enrol for Primary 1!!

Some photos taken while waiting for my turn in the clinic.
I measure 12kg and 85cm le. Big boy... ...just 6 months ago I was around 79.5cm...

drinking my milk while lying down on the sofa bench...

:)

helping myself to the toys...

I like this because there is a steering wheel on it...

:) Ice Kachang!

Mummy...coin pls...for the machine

As usual I will get to enjoy one "car ride"

I am ready to enlist army!!

Nowadays I always carry my backpack with my goodies in it...

Asher & Mummy!

I survived all my jabs from day 1 till 18 months old safe and well without running fever. :)

strong boy!! :)

1 blog. 2 blogs. 3 blogs? or?

With my little brother coming...

Mummy wonders if she should start another blog for him or combine our blogs?

But when BB3 comes along next time, then it will be 3 blogs for mummy to maintain until we are old enough to be able to do so on our own...

So if to combine, then it will be just 1 blog for all of us in future...
like that then my existing blog how?
Can edit the blog name? to change to not just babyasherz-i.blogspot?

but there again, it defeats mummy's orginal intention le...
to have a blog of our own from our beginning of life till we learn to maintain it on our own...at the same time we learn to pen our thoughts down for mummy to read in future...
by then probably 6 years old at least

probabyly Mummy will just do a blog for each of us....to fulfill her intention...
but she is very worried how long she can really do it for...

see the number of blogs I do these days, you will know..
well perhaps it will be down to just weekly blog updates.
we try...

Mummy's voice: A Marriage = A package.

A pretty upset me that 2 nights ago... ...

What triggered? As usual, just casual topics that my man can't even afford a listening ear.

Finally, in tears, I just went ahead and say all I wanted to, without being bothered whether he is even listening or not, whether he answers or not, becos' I know for sure he will still be just the big piece of silent wooden block.

"A Marriage is A Package!"

how can you enjoy all the perks of being married, having a wife to pack things for you, make tea for you when you come home, to run the household for you, to bear you your children, take care of them whether play or education, take care of every small little thing for you, assist you in running the business, making all the big, small plans.....and yet cannot even afford a listening ear or just some care, concern and attention? Not to mention your wife has her own job and work to do. Being married into your family, hardly has much time for her own mother, siblings etc...



A marriage is a package. If you can't afford to put in some efforts or you think it is not even necessary, then you shouldn't even enjoy the privileges and perks.



I hope the words went into the ears and heart of my big silent wooden block.

I am 18 months old le!

mummy spent lots of time with me for the pass week...though I didn't had much outings but we did alot of things together... ... and she took lots of photos for me

Mummy has also been trying to let me understand that I have a little brother coming soon and hopes I will be a good brother...

So it's been a while since I last shared some photos...enjoy...

dozed off while mummy read story book to me

ZzZ...

in dreamland...

mummy is going to prepare me to drop my pacifier soon...
though I only use it for my afternoon nap and night time zzz

throwing tantrums on one fine night when

it's just mummy & I at home...

mummy didn't acede to my request ...

despite my teary pleas...

even when my mucus and tears were all over my face...
Mummy waited till I almost finished crying then hugged me and pat pat me...

still of course I didnt get what i wanted...
mummy don't believe in giving me what I want when I throw tantrums

and it is a phase we all toddlers go through... ...

Hee...my new bag! :D

i Loved it!

See I carry my new bag for my outings these day...
usually contains a toy, my biscuit, water bottle and

baby wipe plus my personal utensils.

thats me learning to brush my teeth...

i usually brush my teeth every morning

upon waking up and night before I go to bed...

my play cum learning time...

mummy letting me play with crayons...

we drew a leaf
and mummy showed me a real leaf

drew my musical bus...

see me holding on to the crayon...
scribbling

i try to run the bus against the low wall..

oops...caught!

act blur loh..

red apple!

yellow butterfly

blue box

dried yellow leaf!

enjoying an ice-cream shared with mummy!

still enjoying the ice cream stick

reluctant to throw the stick away

naughty me...climbing up to the pond

picking up pebbles and throwing them into the pond

in daddy's shoes

see! every baby need a converse too

walking well and steady

putting them back

like Ronald Macdonald?

My daddy's shoes!

i will be an NBA player next time!

See i love the ring so much

hee...caught in the act

trying to pick up my pebble

my outdoor time

Come! let's go Mummy!

Mummy faster!
i want to go kick ball ball!

before I go to bed...
playing with my shape sorter

I learn the different shapes and colors

and enhance my fine motor skills too

cycling!!
Of course I ride on as pillion lah

My Grandpa & Grandma brings me for weekly cycling sessions!!

bye mummy!!

I still want to cycle...
polishing on my gross motor skills

a night outing with Grandma, Daddy & Mummy

I want to play in the water fountain..

but I have got no spare clothes and it's night time...

Looking at the electronic Kite..

Admiring in the arms of my daddy!

i like!

sitting in the musical "cars"
actually i like the steering wheels only...

See so happy... :)

this jie jie...i dunno her...
she just come and hold my hand and jump...
mummy.....

fascinated by the lights ont the floor...

back at home...playing with my steering wheel
mummy tried to take my height

I am going to be Kor Kor in few months time.

Mummy really hopes the transition time for me to accept my little brother will be smooth sailing withut too much tough tantrums by me...well Mummy I will try to co-operate...as much as I can

i am 18 months le mah..big boy le!!